THE FOUNDATION EVERY SINGLE SHOULD BUILD BEFORE MARRIAGE.
1. Spiritual Foundation ; This refers to your faith life.Build your relationship with God by ;
✓It is unfortunate that many young ‘people don’t like their own company. Come on Singles !! enjoy your own company ;have a positive self. – esteem(A good sense of self -worth and value.)The Holy Scriptures teaches,”Love your neighbor as you love yourself.”You can’t love people more than you love yourself. Is somebody getting what I am saying ?Love yourself !!!.
The following ‘ are the areas that singles need to develop to prepare for Life and marriage ;
studying the word of God and meditating on it.
The Scripture says,”Faith comes by hearing, and hearing’ by the word of God.” The faith in one true God,who is the creator and sustainer of the universe.The Sacred writings, contains enormous wisdom for Practical daily living. I appeal to singles to embrace studying the Scriptures.
“We live by faith , not by sight.”
2.Intelectual Foundation ; The mind is the standard of a man. Invest in knowledge;Read extensively ;buy books and read,there are many free online books,the knowledge you acquire will 9 impact your Life for good. The Bible says “My people perish for lack of knowledge”.
“A virtuous woman is a Crown to her husband,s head.”
✓Your Single years are a precious time to develop and invest in yourself.Singleness is a gift to be cherished t not a curse to be detested. Hey my fellow readers !!! do not be desperate for a relationship ,desperation is not the absence of affection but absence of Purpose.
3.SOCIAL FOUNDATION ;Man is by nature a social being’.We thrive in groups,we interact with other people a great deal.Therefore ,there is need to develop social skills.Learn how to associate with different people and build meaning’ful relationships.The following are some of essential social skills ;
1.Communication Skills ;Learn how to greet people with etiquette.Moreover, Understand how to express your feeling’s ,thoughts and opinions, respectfully.Emotional. Intelligence is needed.Learn how to be sensitive to people ‘s feelings,to avoid hurting them.
3.The Financial Foundation ; Life is expensive and almost everything costs money.The financial skills are a necessity for us to learn and apply.Money is security;it is a tool that helps man to better his life and make it beautiful.Money answers to value;Hey , beloved of God,God is our Source not money,money ought to be our servant.Remember,the Love of money is the root of all evil says the Almighty God.Money by itself is good ,but when used in the right way.
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